“A powerful work of observation in which deep truths seem to arise almost by accident.” The New Yorker

Aflame

Learning from Silence

From the bestselling author of The Art of Stillness, a revelatory exploration of the abiding clarity and calm to be found in quiet retreat

Pico Iyer has made more than one hundred retreats over the past three decades to a small Benedictine hermitage high above the sea in Big Sur, California. He’s not a Christian—or a member of any religious group—but his life has been transformed by these periods of time spent in silence. That silence reminds him of what is essential and awakens a joy that nothing can efface. It’s not just freedom from distraction and noise and rush: it’s a reminder of some deeper truths he misplaced along the way.

In Aflame, Iyer connects with inner stillness and joy in his many seasons at the monastery, even as his life is going through constant change: a house burns down, a parent dies, a daughter is diagnosed with cancer. He shares the revelations he experiences, alongside wisdom from other nonmonastics who have learned from adversity and inwardness. And most profoundly, he shows how solitude can be a training in community and companionship. In so doing, he offers a unique outsider’s view of monastic life—and of a group of selfless souls who have dedicated their days to ensuring there’s a space for quiet and recollection that’s open to us all.

Radiant, intimate, and gripping, Aflame offers ageless counsel about the power of silence and what it can teach us about how to live, how to love, and, ultimately, how to die.

“A lovely complement to the monastic writings of both Thomas Merton and Patrick Leigh Fermor…Essential reading for anyone interested in the monastic tradition and those who follow it.”Kirkus Reviews (starred review)

“Beautiful…Iyer masterfully and lyrically shows us how we may need to find a new home—one far more solemn, communal and silent than our present one—in order to return properly to ourselves.” Alain de Botton

“The author brilliantly illuminates philosophical insights about the nature of the self, the world, and how silence serves as a conduit between the two, often in elegant, evocative prose…This is stunning.”Publishers Weekly (starred review)

“I trust that reading this book may help many to lead lives of greater compassion and deeper peace of mind.” His Holiness the Dalai Lama